Originally Posted On: https://larrybensignor.wordpress.com/2025/09/29/how-to-succeed-in-your-careerby-really-trying/
How to Succeed in Your Career…by Really Trying
Some years ago, I helped a friend prepare a commencement speech for graduating business students. We asked ourselves: What truly separates those who rise to the top from those who don’t? What distinguishes one colleague from another?
We came to this conclusion: the people who succeed over the long term share one key trait: leadership.
So how do you become a leader—in business, law, nonprofit work, or any other field? Here are six essential traits that set leaders apart:
1. Don’t Just Show Up
In your career and in life, don’t settle for simply being present. Come to play. And play to win. Punching the clock may get you a job, but if you want a career, you need to be emotionally invested and fully engaged. Don’t be a passive worker. Be a passionate contributor.
Be an active participant in your organization. Who knows? Someday, you might lead it.
2. Build Meaningful Relationships
Your career is a long journey—don’t walk it alone. Along the way, you’ll meet people who may become mentors, advisors, or lifelong allies. These relationships can open doors in ways you can’t yet predict.
Seek out mentors. And one day, become one.
3. Take Ownership
Whether in your job, your relationships, or your personal development, take ownership. Be accountable. Show up as if you own the place…not with entitlement, but with care and commitment. Speak up. Solve problems. Add value.
What sets you apart from every other job seeker or employee? Your sense of ownership. A strong work ethic, solid values, and a mindset of contribution will take you far.
Take initiative. Lean into challenges. Fill the room with your energy.
4. Become an Expert
Generalists have their place, but expertise is what propels careers forward. Start broad, but chart a course toward specialization. Develop deep skills and experience in an area that matters; then leverage it.
Know what you know. And just as importantly, know what you don’t.
5. Think—and Act—Like a Leader
No matter your role—at work, in your community, or at home—step up. Leadership isn’t about titles. It’s about mindset, vision, and the ability to inspire others.
Develop a vision. Communicate it clearly. Rally people around it. Great leaders aren’t just thinkers. They are communicators, collaborators, and do-ers.
Above all, lead with passion. If your energy is contagious, your influence will grow. And remember: if you’re not the lead dog, the view never changes.
6. Don’t Just Do Well—Do Good
A successful life isn’t just measured by titles or salaries. Some of your most meaningful achievements may come from giving back — through service, advocacy, or philanthropy.
Get involved with causes that matter to you. Join organizations. Serve on boards. Chair events. Don’t just write a check—give your time, your voice, your skills.
Give back. You’ll be surprised how much you get in return.
You can succeed in your career, by really trying. Show up with passion. Own your path. Build relationships. Lead with vision. Strive for excellence. And along the way, make a difference.
